tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162211031344228004.post497807450119900065..comments2023-10-22T10:57:11.260-04:00Comments on new year new ute: useful information?amylynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13711287005639677869noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162211031344228004.post-11399892742282986472009-09-04T16:27:35.871-04:002009-09-04T16:27:35.871-04:00I will never forget the results that out mc 2 was ...I will never forget the results that out mc 2 was a normal girl. It was crushing. I am thinking of you and really hope you find out how to proceed, whether it be you doctor or your gut feeling....you will know soon what to do. Hang in there.Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14515461272152076902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162211031344228004.post-27738512256315725112009-08-31T16:42:08.857-04:002009-08-31T16:42:08.857-04:00Im not as well versed as these other lovely ladies...Im not as well versed as these other lovely ladies, but just here to check on you...thinking of you--JJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18027548058304720360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162211031344228004.post-8352249508371204272009-08-29T02:43:23.896-04:002009-08-29T02:43:23.896-04:00What to say? I am so sorry that there are no easy...What to say? I am so sorry that there are no easy answers for what went wrong, and terribly sorry for the loss of your precious, normal, baby girl.<br /><br />I was interested to hear what Grad3 had to say about leukocyte issues - I don't think I've had that test either. And I can't remember exactly what the whole IVIg issue is about, but I read somewhere that doctors are now substituting low dose prednisone instead, which for people in Australia would be useful as IVIg is SO hard to access here.<br /><br />What I'm thinking now- if I do replace an embryo from a donor egg cycle, I am going to do lovenox AND prednisone, to cover all bases. Meanwhile, the search for a surrogate is well underway.<br /><br />Maybe you're not ready to stop trying to have a child, but maybe you are at a place where the road forks off and you begin to consider some other options for the process of bringing that child home. And that probably means giving up some level of connection to that child, and this in turn is a loss, and as such must be grieved.<br /><br />And if you are ready to stop, it does not mean you failed or you suck or you're lazy because you won't go the extra yard. You'll stop because it is right for you, on a very deep level, and because that choice is compatible with your value system, your strongly held beliefs about yourself and your relationship. And you will know when that time has come. <br /><br />And wherever you are now, in making those decisions, is perfectly ok, even if it is confusing and scary. And I'm here to support you being there. xxxPanamahathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10248512242594265755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162211031344228004.post-69801323640027869152009-08-28T15:04:32.495-04:002009-08-28T15:04:32.495-04:00They are not silly things. It's important. I...They are not silly things. It's important. It's all important, which makes it all the much harder and brings that urgency.<br /><br />Our stories seem similar and I would like to encourage you (if I may be so bold)to look into the immune testing. My RE wanted egg donor we wanted immune testing. So we had leukocyte antibodies and Nk done- turned out I had leukocyte issues. Both are treated the same way and SIRM just developed a newer, cheaper way to treat it (if that is the problem). <br /><br />We weren't sure what would happen when we got the testing done- but knew it help us better understand our options and where we wanted to go.<br /><br />And if you stop, it just means that you are ready to let go. That you are ready to have a life that you can enjoy- just maybe not in the way you originally thought. But you will still have a full, happy life. <br /><br />~Big, Warm Hugs~Grad3https://www.blogger.com/profile/01507004280070094471noreply@blogger.com