tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162211031344228004.post110191261359971541..comments2023-10-22T10:57:11.260-04:00Comments on new year new ute: not funnyamylynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13711287005639677869noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162211031344228004.post-54378397927387989382009-03-29T04:31:00.000-04:002009-03-29T04:31:00.000-04:00Shit like that isn't funny at the best of times.Shit like that isn't funny at the best of times.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162211031344228004.post-25619052411790640072009-03-27T13:09:00.000-04:002009-03-27T13:09:00.000-04:00I totally see where you are coming from. My father...I totally see where you are coming from. My father called me a few months ago to tell me about a friend of a friend whom lost her baby at 9 months old, then he went on to say how much harder it would be to lose a baby once it's lived. I couldn't believe he called me to say that. I composed myself and calmly told him, that I personally feel that no matter how long a baby is with us, the loss is horrible and the pain is heartbreaking. My dad is a good man, but simply doesn't get what I've been through. No matter how many times I tell him how horrible it was to have to give birth to our baby whom only developed to 18 weeks and lose two more after that...my story falls on deaf ears. And it's like that with almost everyone I encounter actually...accept women whom have experienced miscarriage. I've learned to look past others ignorance as much as I can...because in the end, those are the people who love me most...their intentions are not to hurt me. They just don't have the tools in their toolbox to help me...it's not their fault. I always try to put myself in their shoes...for example I've never had cancer, so if my dad called an said he had cancer, would I always know what to say and do?...I’d like to think so, but I can't say for sure. So when moments happen where someone says or does something insensitive to me, I try to remember the phrase: Forgive them for they know not what they do. But I have to admit it’s not always easy.Fumbling towards Motherhoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01554500847309300983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162211031344228004.post-1025219901335923382009-03-27T12:21:00.000-04:002009-03-27T12:21:00.000-04:00I am sorry that you are feeling in anxious in plac...I am sorry that you are feeling in anxious in place that should provide comfort.<BR/><BR/>I wish that things were different.<BR/><BR/>~Big hugs~Grad3https://www.blogger.com/profile/01507004280070094471noreply@blogger.com